What is the most interesting question you can ask to get to know someone?
Last Updated: 19.06.2025 00:07
3- What’s your favorite smell? Do you a least favorite?
What would you say to prove to yourself that it was really you?
If yes, what?
At what stage in your life did you realize, "No, I can't do this any more" and walk out? Why?
Can you Deep Throat? Do you like the taste of yourself?
13- How about having a certain hair cut/style?
3- What was the most surprising thing you’ve learned about me throughout our relationship?
What are some ways to improve speed in sprinting, running uphill, and long/middle distance running?
45~ What do you like about yourself? Rate yourself 1-10. (Looks, personality, etc....)
If you say it, I will stop, and we can talk about it when you are ready.
80~ Share your top three fantasies/desires. (Be detailed) 😊
What a list actors/ actresses are notorious for being jerks in real life?
59~ Have/do you masturbate? How often? What do you use? (Toys, Phone sex, Erotica, Hard Core, shower/water, etc) Would you, while your partner watches?
38~ Share your most embarrassing sexual memory?
25~ How do you feel about PDA? (Public Display of Affection)
Do Flat Earthers exist today? If so, where do they live?
12- What is the weirdest thing you've ever eaten?
49~ If you could, would you want to be the opposite sex for a day, week, or year?
49~ How many times have you been married? Why did they end?
How is sex in college like with roommates and big campuses?
11- Is there something you would like me to do, in any area of our relationship that I have not done, or you want more of?
60~ How important is oral sex? Do you like receiving? Do you like giving?
42~ Ever been spanked during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
How do you feel about anal play? (Fingers, toys, butt plug) How do you feel about rimming? (licking)
92~ Everyone needs a “safe” word. What is yours?
7~ How many times in one day have you had sex? Who/When/Where? Care to Share?
What makes you feel guilty the most?
Do you think this brought you closer together?
39~ Share your top three favorite/best memorable sexual experiences. Want to repeat them?
88~ Do you prefer me to be naked or in lingerie, PJ’s when you are sleeping?
6- Do you have dreams? Can you remember them? What do you usually dream about?
22~ What is the best pickup line anyone has ever used on you? What was the worst?
35~ Do you like playing music in the background or silence? Is there a sexy song that tends to get you in the mood?
What do you do to make yourself sleep early?
15- What bad habit do you wish you could quit? Do you have any addictions?
Is it ok for a man to perform oral sex after he has ejaculated inside of you?
5~ When you first started having sex, was it what you thought it would be?
Is having white skin really that attractive?
92~ Have you ever had or have an STD? How many? What was it?
40~ If you could go back in time, and relive your life, with the knowledge you have now, what age would you go back to and why?
33~ Share your thoughts on what you believe great sex/love making is to you? How long should it last?
*** Random Questions ***
27~ If you could freeze your body but not your mind at a certain age, what age would you be? Explain why.
4- For a pet, Cat, dog or other?
Should women be allowed in “combat roles” within the military?
18- How often do you drink alcohol? What is your favorite drink?
25- Fight, Flight, or Freeze? What is your typical response? Does it change with different settings?
30~ What's something unexpected that turns you on?
How do I convince my husband that a threesome is okay?
* Give a rating for each one (0-100)
32~ What are your favorite foreplay activities? Kissing/Touching? Food? Toys? Role Play? Others?
10- List 5 of your top pet peeves.
How many times do you think you have “made love”?
64~ When was your very first orgasm? When was your first from having sex? Care to share?
What do you dislike about me? I asked you to be 100% honest.
58~ Have you ever taken Nude or Hard-core photos and/or videos? Care to Share?
3- What Superhero or Superpower would you want to be/have?
87~ Do you like it when I used my teeth (lightly)? How do you feel about hickeys?
50~ How many children do you have? What are their ages?
33- Beach or Mountains? Or is there another place to like better?
21~ What was the best date you ever went on? What has been the worst?
28~ What are some things that turn on? What is your biggest turn on?
11- List at least 5 things on your bucket list. Have you done any of them already?
27- What was/ is nickname? Does it have a meaning behind it?
16- Can we talk about your health history? Have you had any surgeries? Any broken bones?
23- What is your dream job? What was it as a child?
54~ Would you ever go skinny dipping with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
51~ What tends to bring a smile to your face?
These go from easy to answer, to OMG, you really want to know that?! to some serious thought. Take your time and have fun with this. The past is the past… it got you two here together…
If you lose, are you willing to be their sex slave for a day, (anything goes)?
10- What is your favorite family tradition? What’s your least favorite?
14- What is an embarrassing moment in your life? How about your most embarrassing?
8- What are your thoughts on politics?
Any that are a turn off?
12- What’s your favorite food? What’s your least favorite?
63~ Is having an orgasm important every time you have sex? Have you ever faked an orgasm?
14~ When was the first time you said, “I Love You”? (romantically) Did you mean it? Who? Care to Share?
44~ Care to share something about yourself that no one else knows about you?
7- What’s your favorite book? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
29- How superstitious are you?
Can you have multiple orgasms? Are you able to have different kinds of orgasms?
Are you willing to help and encourage your partner to fulfill their fantasies and desires?
35- Do you like playing board or cards game? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
1- Down the back or over the top? (The toilet paper roll) 2- Up or down? (The toilet seat)
12~ Have you ever had a one-nightstand? Was it good, fun, satisfying? Would you do it again?
Would you ever want to be woken up with oral and/or intercourse?
2- Are you afraid of anything? (Spiders, heights, snakes, etc.) What is your greatest fear?
20~ Have you ever cheated? Care to Share? If you have, why do you believe that you did?
15- What's your favorite saying? What word or phrase is your least favorite?
Will you cheat again? How can, you be sure? Define what cheating is to you.
26~ What side of the bed do you sleep on?
Have you ever? Care to Share?
Foot fetishes, Role-playing, Sadism, Masochism, Bondage, Discipline, Dominance and submission, Voyeurism, Exhibitionism, Furries, Humiliation, Gender/Age play, Cuckolding, Gagging, etc.?
17~ What is the average length of your relationship(s)? What was the longest? Why did they end?
24- What celebrities would you use your hall pass on? How about just dinner, or just hanging out with you?
1- What was your first impression of me? Has it changed?
That one or two things that made you go hmmmm, OMG or wow!
16- What’s your favorite vacation you have been on? What’s your least favorite? Where would you like to go?
9- How about not brushing their teeth or having bad breath? 10- How about if they cuss too much?
What have you learned about yourself that you did not before this?
What have you learned about me that was new and/or surprising?
The Ice Breaker Questions
(Strip poker, truth or dare, spin the bottle, Naked Twister, adult card games Etc.) Have you ever? Care to Share?
*** What’s Your Favorite…? ***
Do you shave/trim your pubic hair? For you guys do you shave your balls?
75~ If your partner wants an orgasm/have sex when you don't desire to have sex, how do you plan to deal with their needs?
67~ Do you like it when your partner moans and/or is vocal during sex?
7-What do I do in bed that drives you wild? How about, what turns you off?
Any that are a turn off?
Do you prefer your partner’s pubic hair trimmed, Landing Strip, full bush or completely bare?
*** Questions About Me ***
77~ What are your thoughts on swapping or swinging or group sex? Have you ever? Care to Share?
20- What’s your favorite candy? What’s your least favorite?
Doctor/Nurse Stripper/Client
Teacher/Student Stranger/One Night Stand
Meaning if you ever say it no matter how long we have been together or where we are in the moment…
Do you watch it? What is your favorite?
4- What do you like about me? Rate me 1-10. (Looks, personality, overall, etc....)
Nurse/Patient Celebrity/Fan
Would you allow me to shave your legs? How about your pubic hair? How about shower sex?
91~ Would you ever go into an adult book/toys store with me? Would you buy something?
A comprehensive questionnaire, this should be a fun exercise to get to know each other. Try to give as much detail as possible when answering questions. You can go through this together and talk about each question or fill out the questionnaire as completely as you can and once you are done, go through each question together. If you have been together for a while, it is also fun to try to answer the questions for your partner. Remember this should be fun, so if you do not wish to answer a question you can “PASS” and not answer. Both should answer honestly and without judgement. (This is important, without judgement) I hope this helps you get closer and strengthens your relationship… You can learn a lot about the other person… and yourself…
43~ Ever had your hair pulled during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?
18~ Who/when was your first “crush”?
31- If given a chance to be immortal, would you take it? Why?
37- Do you like your name? If you could change it, what would you change it too?
1- What’s your favorite animal? Do you a least favorite?
70~ Would/do you have/like anal sex?
Would you mind if your partner watched it? How about together vs alone?
11- What's your favorite restaurant? What’s your least favorite?
Do you like it when they show and tell you what they want?
8- What's something unexpected that turns you on that I do to you? Don’t be shy now, I really want to know.
2- What’s your favorite color? Do you a least favorite?
18- What’s your favorite way to relax after a long day? What’s your least favorite?
5- What do I do outside the bedroom that turns you on? How about, what turns you off?
8- What's your favorite flavor of ice cream? Do you a least favorite?
83~ How do you feel about Porn?
84~ How do you feel about reading/listening to adult stories?
Escort/Client Job Applicant/Hiring Manager
52~ Are you willing to make “those types” of bets with your partner?
44~ Have you ever been tied up during sex? What are your thoughts on bondage?
Model/Photographer Police/Criminal
*** Deal Breaker Questions ***
38- If you won the Lottery and got 200 million dollars, what would you do with all that money?
39~ What are your love languages?
2~ How old were you when you got to 2nd base? (Tongue kissing, breast feeling, or outside the clothes genital contact) Who? Care to Share?
9- What’s your favorite season and why? What’s your least favorite?
34- Ever been to a concert? What was your favorite? Who would you like to see?
79~ How important is it to have a partner that will help and encourage you to fulfill your fantasies and desires?
76~ Have you had a threesome? Care to Share?
You know that I will be 100% truthful, so ask.
Does the thought excite you? Care to share?
36- Do you play video games? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?
22- What is your favorite childhood memory? What is your least favorite?
16~ Do you believe in “soulmates”? Have you found yours? Who? Care to Share?
56~ Would you ever go to a strip club with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
19~ Who/when was your first “heartbreak”?
* Which of the following turns you on the most? Do you have any not on this list? Care to share?
23~ What do you believe is required to have a successful and healthy relationship? (This is important, take your time, and really think about this)
How well do you know me? And some of your thoughts about me
37~ What is the biggest age gap between you and one of your sexual partners? Who? Care to Share?
9~ How many times over your lifetime do you think you have had sex so far?
82~ Do you have any fantasies involving Role-Playing?
43~ If you could write up to a one-page letter to yourself, what would you say and what age would you send it?
How about if they talk dirty and/or call you names?
15~ Have you ever been “in love”? Who? Care to Share?
47~ Have you ever thought about trying tantric sex? (Not sure? Look it up)
6~ How many sexual partners have you had? Can you name them all? Can you remember when and where?
68~ Would you ever get your partner up from bed by using oral sex and/or intercourse?
1- What’s your (zodiac, astrological) sign? Do you believe this has any meaning in your life?
17- Have you ever done drugs? Which ones? How often?
1~ How old were you when you had your first kiss? Who? Care to Share?
71~ Would you give your partner a hand or foot job? Would you receive one?
45~ How do you feel about me blindfolding you? How about blindfolding me?
31~ What do you find most attractive sexually and non-sexually in a man/woman? (Body and Personality)
53~ How about wearing no panties or bra at all, while wearing a dress or skirt? How about stockings and Garter Belts?
5- What’s your favorite movie genre? What’s your favorite movie of all time? How many times have you watched it?
17- What’s your favorite holiday? What’s your least favorite?
Over time has your thoughts on sex changed?
3~ How old were you when you got to 3rd base? (Touching and stimulating the genitals. Oral sex)
19- What’s your favorite fairytale? What’s your least favorite?
Would /have you ever given your partner a lap dance and Striptease?
How many partners have you had oral sex with? Who? Care to Share?
14 – Is it ok to talk to you while you are on the toilet? 15- Is it ok to eat while on the toilet?
85~ If I gave you a “Free Pass” for you to do anything to me for one hour, knowing that no matter what you did,
90~ Have you ever had sex in a Pool or Hot Tub? Would you?
69~ Are you willing to have sex while you or your partner is on their period? How about oral sex?
Is there a smell that most people do not like that you do? Is there a smell that triggers a memory?
73~ Have you ever had public sex? Care to share? Have you ever had an orgasm in a public place?
4~ How old were you when you lost your virginity? Is it a good memory? Who? Care to Share? (be detailed)
72~ Is it ok to ejaculate on your body, face, ass, breast? How about in your mouth? Is there any place not allowed?
6- Is there anything that I do/say that irritates you? How about makes you smile and love to hear it?
13~ Is there a difference between, making love, having sex, and fucking?
What is your favorite toy? Ever wanted to try a specific toy?
What was the longest? What was the shortest?
41~ What are you best at in bed? What do you think you are not so good at? Anything you want to get good at?
9- If you could have three wishes, what would they be? Why?
62~ Have you used adult toys?
6- What’s your favorite TV series? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?
Family Relation Age Play
Physical Touch - Words of Affirmation - Quality Time - Acts of Service - Receiving Gifts
Prisoner/Prison Guard Landlord/Tenant
14- Do you have a “Deal Breaker”, anything that your partner has done or will do, a boundary that once crossed you are done with the relationships?
13- What is the craziest/scariest thing you've ever done?
48~ Have you ever paid or been paid for sex?
Take the short quiz here @ Discover Your Love Language® - The 5 Love Languages®
41~ Are there moments in your past that you would want to change? Please share 3 of them.
10~ How many dates are necessary before you to have sex with someone?
How old are you? Male or Female?
47~ What would be your dream job and why?
74~ Have you ever had sex while others watched? Have you ever watched others have sex?
Will you kiss after your partner has gone down on you? Swallow or spit semen?
Do you have a favorite? Is it ok if your partner does?
8~ How many times a week would you like to engage in sexual activities? What is the average for you now?
30- Do you prefer living in the countryside, in a town, or in a big city? Why?
Get this wrong and this could mean the end… :-) some funny, some not…
Would/have you gotten a lap dance? Would/have you watched your partner get a lap dance?
5- Do you fold or scrunch? (toilet paper while you wipe) 6- How about bad hygiene?
I would allow you to do it… What would you do to me?
How long for foreplay? Do you need to have an orgasm? Is afterplay important?
26- Do you cry while watching a movie or TV show? Which one did you cry the hardest?
53~ How much can you tell me about the one thing you are most passionate about?
48~ Do you have any siblings? Are you close to your family?
What is your favorite position? Why?
78~ Have you ever thought about making out or having sex with someone of the same sex? Care to Share?
20- Do you have any tattoos? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
9- Is there something you’ve always wanted to ask me but you’re afraid?
7- What if a person smells a certain way? 8- How about smoking?
Would you allow me to clean every part of your body with my soapy hands and fingers?
If NO, would you ever have one? Would it be with 2 men or 2 women?
Repairman/Lonely Wife Virgin/Experienced
81~ Do you have any kinks and/or fetishes?
Would you do it again, and would you rather 2 females or 2 males?
Would you read them together?
If yes, what kind? (Clitoral, Vaginal, G-Spot. Anal, Squirting, A-Spot, Cervix, Breast/Nipple, Touching, non- Touching/Mental)
(Dildo, vibrator, nipple clamp, cock ring, butt plug and tail, couples’ toys, pocket pussy/sleeves, Ben-wa balls, pumps, gags, strap-on, remote controlled, vibrating panties, ETC…)
22- Do you have any birth marks? How about scars? Care to share how you got them?
Master/Slave Boss/Maid
11~ Have you ever been caught by your parents or children or others while having sex?
89~ Do you like taking showers together?
5- Have you ever been hypnotized? Would you allow yourself to be?
Do you like the “69” position? Do you prefer to be on top or bottom?
65~ Describe the best orgasm you’ve ever had? Care to share?
If you win, what will you make them do?
4- What’s your favorite genre of music? What’s your least favorite? Is there a song that triggers a memory?
55~ Would you ever go to a nude beach/resort with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?
7- What are your thoughts on religion? Is there an afterlife?
2- What do you remember about our first date? Rate it. Rate our first kiss. Rate our first time together.
61~ How willing would you be to try new sexual positions?
50~ Where would you like to be touched more? Do you have a place that you want to be touched, that no one has, or has only happened a couple times? How about less?
*** Questions about Relationships/Past ***
85~ If you gave me a “free Pass” to have me do anything for one hour, what would you want me to do to you?
13- What’s your favorite drink? What’s your least favorite?
19- Do/have you smoked? What do you prefer? How often?
11- How about if they like a certain sports team? 12-How about drinking too much?
Piecing, tattoo, color hair, dress up a certain way, it could be anything… Shave me…
93~ Now that this really long questionnaire is over, one last question, ok maybe 3…
3- Should Pluto still be considered a planet? 4- How about smoking?
21- What's your favorite way to spend a weekend or time off?
24~ What are your expectations in a relationship? (I know a very big question, take your time)
42~ What’s your biggest regret in life?
What is your view on sex? Meaning, When/Where/ How often/
Nothing too Serious
28- What are some things that people do that irritate you?
46~ Where do you want to be in your life in a year? How about 5 years? How about 10 years?
29~ What are some things that turn you off? What is your biggest turn off?
33- If you could visit any time period, when would you pick? Please explain why?
What’s the longest time you gone without having sex, after, having it? How much time between the others?
36~ What is your favorite time of day to have sex/make love?
32- What's your greatest talent? Can I see it right now?
10- Do I have a habit or quirk that you find cute or weird? How about an annoying habit of mine?
52~ What are your hobbies?
51~ Are you willing to play adult games with your partner?
If YES, was it with 2 men or 2 women? Did you enjoy it?
40~ What’s the weirdest place you’ve ever had sex?
14- What's your favorite dessert? Do you a least favorite?
57~ Describe the perfect penis/vagina. Does size really matter? What is too big/small?
34~ Do you like the lights on or off during sex?
21- Do you have any piercings? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?
46~ Have you ever used furniture, or other types of things to aid you while having sex?
Please share Did you stop?
66~ What’s the shortest time it’s ever taken for you to have an orgasm? And the longest?